Be careful.
Maybe you're being mentally abused.
Many men often ask in private messages: "Is 100,000 a month okay? 🙃"
Everything has a hidden price tag. Behind this price tag lies your inner world.
Don't think it's insignificant. If it continues for a long time, it can be a very scary thing.
There are two scenarios.
One: You're both attracted to each other. The man happens to be wealthy. You enjoy being with him. He's also willing to spend money on you. This is fine. U happy, be ok.
The other: You're "physically repulsed" by this person❗️❗️. Or, you're strangers. He offers you money. First, we can label him. He probably has no personal charm or unique qualities. He "can only attract you with money." Otherwise, why would he offer you money? He looks like Daniel Wu, with a bunch of girls flocking to him.
Or, he's truly wealthy and influential. In real life, he'd have girls flocking to him. He private messages you. Guess why.
80% of them are just showing off because they don't have money and are trying to disgust you.
The essence of a relationship is the exchange of value: appearance value, emotional value, and monetary value.
So, as the name suggests, money actually equals compensation for emotional distress from the ugly partner to the attractive partner.
When the other person only has money, and you are not attracted to them mentally, cognitively, or physically, they use money to pressure you into compromise. Don't think this is insignificant, because what follows is a nightmare.
—Continuous and uninterrupted mental abuse.
If you are uncomfortable with this person and experience physical aversion, your spirit is being constantly damaged, and your energy field is being disrupted.
Mental abuse is more terrifying than physical abuse because it depletes a person's energy. In a relationship bought with money, your spirit is constantly in a state of extreme discomfort and oppression. You are doing things you don't want to do, and your body and mind are constantly in a state of discomfort.
Many people develop illnesses due to bad moods and anger. What is anger illness? Qi and blood flow is blocked. Some people can even be driven to death by anger. Don't underestimate the importance of "qi and blood." Have you ever seen someone who is extremely mentally unstable while in a relationship with their significant other?
It's possible they aren't actually unstable, but rather driven insane by their significant other. So if you're with someone and you experience extreme emotional instability, exhaustion, self-doubt, and oppression, you may be experiencing long-term "mental abuse." Over time, you can observe their state of mind and find they are undoubtedly devastated and mentally unstable.
The same is true of "relationships" built on money. If you experience chronic extreme mental discomfort, maintaining a long-term relationship with someone you dislike and dislike is a long-term mental devastation. Your will, spirit, and personality are gradually being eroded and worn away. The damage is invisible, yet the most powerful.
So, don't lose sight of the big picture. Your mood, your energy, and your spiritual world are priceless.
Everything has a hidden price tag. Some things, though priceless, are the most expensive.
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However, human nature is complex and diverse.
So, let's only discuss the harms of relationships based purely on money and physical aversion.
There are still many gray areas in relationships, relationships that transcend power, and there are no fixed, correct answers.
There may also be those who are desperately short of money, forced by life's demands. A sick father, a mother with a loan, a brother in school, and a broken self.
Where there's demand, there's a market. You have no right to judge anyone. Just do what you believe is right.
