I'd also like to spend hundreds of thousands to marry a man older than me. If technology were more advanced, I'd give him a uterus so I could be a surrogate mother. He could do my laundry, cook, and clean every day. That's much cheaper than hiring a free nanny. I wouldn't mind giving him a few thousand yuan a month for living expenses and household costs. I'd occasionally buy him a gift to cheer him up and give him some emotional support. If he could work and earn money in nightclubs, that would be even better. He could also get money from rich women to supplement the family income.