I just finished my private class and went to do foot massageA masseur who came to Japan alone at the age of 50 told me about the beauty of silence, the national foam economy and philosophy for 80 minutesOriginally, I just wanted to do a foot massage as usual. In China, I can do it four times a week, so I got to know Japanese Chinese ear picking and massage parlors as soon as possibleI walked into a store that I had been coding for a long time and was familiar with. It was a Chinese sisterMassage is most afraid of masseurs chattering in your ear. I usually pretend to be asleepAfter lying down, she indeed started chatting and said that she felt that people's attitudes were changing, especially after the pandemic when she said Japan was very lonelyI'm not going to roast with me when I'm doneI am a person with strong senses. I can strongly feel a person's emotions and feelings, empathize with them, and instantly feel their negative emotions of loneliness. I do not want to continue receiving themBut her next sentence instantly aroused my curiosity and the idea of continuing to talk to herShe said she has been in Japan for eight years and is now 58 years oldAt the age of 50, she decided to go to Japan aloneI pretended to accidentally chat with her about why she made this decision at the age of 50 and how she feels in Japan, because I know she can come to Japan alone and her family may be more sensitive and hesitant to askI didn't expect her to take the initiative to talk to me. She got married at the age of 18.19 and had children. Later, she divorced her husband and got married in ChinaShe later chose to immigrate as an investor and came to Japan. I seem to understand now and don't want to ask further questionsChoosing to switch countries at the age of 50 requires courageShe said she's mostly alone in JapanWill you feel lonely if I ask her? What do you usually like to do in your leisure time? She said she would have a cup of coffee every morning and fry salmon and eggs herself. After breakfast, she would listen to musicals, watch news, and read philosophy. She also mentioned that there is a very delicious Xi'an Biang Biang noodle restaurant that she recommended to meShe talked to me about the beauty of wabi sabi in Japan, and she likes to listen to operas by Karas and Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris. Read Dostoevsky's book, enter his world, see human nature, and her views on the "foam economy" in recent yearsAt that moment, I seemed to see her soul, her soul slowly unfolding in front of me. She was an ordinary person doing ordinary things, but she was not ordinary at allPeople who are constantly in the crowd will become ignorant and lack the ability to think independently. When they are lonely, they will see the world more clearlyI chatted with her again and the 80 minute massage ended. Maybe it was a mental massage, but after paying for it and saying thank you, I couldn't calm down for a long time-As I walked out, I saw the Xi'an restaurant she mentioned. I ordered the noodles she said were written with stories about her at this restaurant