One problem with elite women is that they have too high expectations of their partners and feel overly worthy.
What does "deserved" mean? They have too high expectations for their partners, believing themselves to be so superior that any man is worthy of them.
The problem is that elite men seem to only want to be friends with elite women.
There's a movie called "The Tinder Swindler" about a man who boasts a private jet, a luxurious lifestyle, and excessive emotional value, then tricks women into maxing out their credit cards and ultimately into paying him back.
These types of scams are rampant, targeting highly educated women with overseas backgrounds.
Why overseas? They're lonely living abroad, having built successful careers independently, and have high expectations. They prefer men with good education, a good family background, and who are considerate, gentle, and emotionally valuable. These types of men are rarely found in scams, except for those who can satisfy them.
There are many elite women in the cryptocurrency world, so nouveau riche college graduates like Feng are naturally not interested. Friendship for money is fine, but sex is not.
But don't overthink your partner; everyone has flaws.
A partner who fulfills all your beautiful fantasies likely has some issues. No one is perfect.
My girlfriend used to love the "old money" look and was obsessed with it. She saw a bunch of so-called "old money" men in the front row VIP seats at Wimbledon on Xiaohongshu, dressed in suits, scarves, and detailed bow ties, all looking incredibly gentlemanly.
But it was July, and dressing that way would have given her heat rash.
So, which was better, the gentlemanly and respectable look of "old money" or the relaxed, relaxed look of wearing shorts and a T-shirt? So she quickly de-enchanted herself.
A little-known fact: medieval noble men wore wigs because lice made their heads itchy, so they would shave their heads and wear wigs. Wigs also concealed hair loss (including that caused by diseases like syphilis), scars, and skin conditions.
They weren't just symbols of nobility!
Therefore, the price behind any glamour and decency is imperfection. After all, even the He Shi Bi is not perfect, so how can there be a perfect person?