One of the biggest red flags is a lack of curiosity, or boredom.
Fellow traveler, don't you realize how wondrous everything is? Don't you realize that the existence of unsolved mysteries, puzzles, and questions that even the wisest among us admit we cannot answer is a miracle in itself? Don't you realize that our very existence—our consciousness, our ability to marvel at the stars and their mysteries—is a miracle in itself?
If you don't seek wisdom, I don't know how to comfort you, but you are likely wasting this precious time we have to experience.
Of course, life can be painful, stressful, and unsatisfying at times. Undoubtedly. But that's life. All we can do is try our best to live each day, and if possible, spend more time reading and reflecting on those challenging questions.
I am incredibly grateful to have this time to seek wisdom! 😸🙏