I have always advocated upward social interaction. Basically, this is the view I hear all the time. The logic of this view is to be with people who are stronger than you, to get resources for the purpose of improving yourself. There is nothing wrong with the logic;
But these days, I think rich people are definitely smart people. There are two types of rich people. One is very busy with real business (no time to deal with you), and the other is rich and has plenty of time (rich second generation + finance + company doing rental and sales business). It is difficult to get the first kind of people, and if you get the second kind of people, you are just spending time to become a playmate for others to pass the time. Maybe you think what I said is wrong. If you don’t believe me, try to borrow money from them. Don’t say that you are brothers. First ask yourself what use you have for others. Value (understand yourself), even if you play with others, you can't stand up straight, just a pet. At 20, you can be a rich man's pet, at 30, you can, but at 40, if you haven't caught a bone, just let it go;
The captain always said that you should squint your eyes to see the world. If you have this idea, you might as well read more and think of ways to improve yourself, don't waste time. The captain said this because there are cases around him. There was such a person around me, now he is in his 40s and has a debt of nearly 2 million. Marriage requires a good match, and the same is true for making friends;
Those who come together based on a hobby are not friends, but a stage of playing coins, fishing friends, mahjong friends, and coin friends... We are all like this; we can all say that we are friends, but these people are just passers-by on the road of life, and they will disperse as we walk. Be clear about how to walk your own path;
To socialize upward, you must have a purpose and learn something. Don't bow and scrape all your life, and you will gain nothing except building a luxurious worldview;
If you are a chicken, lay eggs well and don't play around with the phoenix, Li Baiqing said 😂