@vvickym2 says, "Don't judge others by your own standards, don't make arbitrary judgments, give others space, and you'll also preserve your own dignity."
As someone who burns incense and donates money on the first and fifteenth of each lunar month unless there are special circumstances, I believe more in karma. If you interfere in someone else's cause, you must bear their consequences. @vvickym2, do you agree with me?
Sometimes, what's more terrifying than wandering ghosts is the human heart.
I used to think that saving a life was better than building a seven-story pagoda,
but the older I get, the more I understand the old saying: "A wise person doesn't stand under a crumbling wall." Interfering in someone else's cause means bearing their consequences. It sounds like philosophy, but it's a bloody reality.
An aunt donated part of her liver to her sister's child. After the surgery, her health deteriorated, and she couldn't work. While the child recovered, they experienced rejection and needed lifelong medication.
At first, her sister and brother-in-law visited her frequently and brought gifts during holidays. But after a few years, the couple started blaming her, saying, "It's all your fault for having a bad liver; it harmed our child." Even her family eventually rejected her, and she fell into depression, never recovering, and ultimately committed suicide by jumping off a building. The couple who had helped her didn't even attend her funeral.
This is the old saying: "A small favor is appreciated, a large favor breeds resentment."
Great kindness can turn into great hatred. When a favor becomes too great to repay, it often transforms into resentment.
I once saw a video: A while ago, my electric scooter was stolen. A few days later, a middle-aged woman claiming to be the thief came to my door, kneeling down to apologize and offering compensation.
She said the scooter exploded while charging at home, seriously injuring several members of her family. She wanted to seek compensation from the manufacturer and needed the purchase invoice. I almost gave it to her, but fortunately, netizens intervened. Giving the invoice is tantamount to admitting you sold or gave the scooter away, which would make you liable for any accidents and could even result in a large sum of money.
Misunderstandings and rumors are more hurtful than ingratitude. A female college student met a beggar on the street and, out of kindness, gave him food.
Unexpectedly, this beggar went around telling everyone that the girl had fallen in love with him and wanted to marry him. Helping someone in the short term doesn't always bring gratitude, but rather utter ingratitude and malicious speculation.
Before saving someone, you can never be sure who they are or what their story is. Your kindness might be rewarded with gratitude, or it might bring lawsuits, defamation, or even a lifelong burden.
As our ancestors said, "A wise person does not stand under a crumbling wall," because you don't know if you've saved someone who will repay kindness or someone who will turn on you. Interfering in someone else's cause means bearing their consequences, sometimes not good but bitter.
Therefore, helping others is acceptable, but you must act within your means and, more importantly, protect yourself. Because once you extend a helping hand, you must be prepared to shoulder the fate of others.
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