I couldn't concentrate on studying today, so I just strolled around Genting Highlands in KL this afternoon. My homepage was acting strange today; it was full of posts about male-female conflict and fighting. As a gay man who has wandered around and whose family background wasn't perfect, I've always had my own social principles: I hate scheming. Even from my closest family, if it's full of calculation, I'll turn away. I firmly believe that most marriages end with someone compatible and on the same wavelength. Incompatible people rarely last more than three years. If they do last many years, it's not the other person's fault. Your inner self determines the kind of person you'll meet; you'll spend the rest of your life with someone who is your equal.