It used to be called flattery, now it's called providing emotional value. It used to be called sulking, now it's called emotional drain. It used to be called dating a rich man, now it's called upward social mobility. It used to be called changing jobs, now it's called changing career paths. It used to be called ill-mannered, now it's called low emotional intelligence. It used to be called naive, now it's called insensitivity. Who's the first person that comes to mind?