Every time someone says this, I'm curious about one thing: if you genuinely want to ask someone for advice, shouldn't you go to great lengths to get close to them? Do you just walk in the door to ask a leader for help? I've said I'll stay in Yunnan whenever I have free time. Shouldn't your correct approach be to just offer me a long-term contract for a month without even discussing a negotiated rate? What are you thinking? It's baffling. It's all NPC behavior, but you're fantasizing about being the protagonist. Do you really think that in reality, if we sat down together, you'd be a friendly, laughing conversation with me? At least show me a way that earns my respect. Ridiculous.