If your son is handsome and your daughter is beautiful, please give them more attention. Because in school, handsome boys may be envied and excluded, while beautiful girls may be teased and offended. This is especially true in the upper grades of elementary school and middle school. Children at this age don't yet understand appreciation, but they already understand comparison. In school, good looks don't bring benefits; instead, they can become a reason for targeting. But if your child excels academically and has a strong character, that light will earn others' respect.